Parcel not delivered or lost complaint letter
When you buy something online, the seller is usually responsible until the parcel reaches you. That means the seller, not you, has to sort it out with the courier.
Who to complain to
- If you bought it online: complain to the seller first. In the EU, the risk of loss stays with the seller until you receive the goods.
- If you sent the parcel yourself: complain to the courier, quoting the tracking number and any insurance you paid for.
Before you write
- Check with neighbours, your building's reception and any safe-place instructions you gave.
- Screenshot the tracking page, including any delivery photo or GPS details.
Questions people ask
The tracking says delivered. Can the seller refuse to refund me?
A 'delivered' status is not proof that you received the parcel. Ask the seller for proof of delivery, such as a signature or photo, and point out that the risk stays with them until you receive the goods.
How long should I wait before complaining?
Contact the seller as soon as the expected delivery date has passed. Couriers often run their own investigation, which can take a few days.
Can I ask my bank to reverse the payment?
If the seller doesn't respond, you can often ask your card provider for a chargeback. Your complaint letter is useful evidence that you tried to resolve it first.
This template and guide are general information, not legal advice. Rules differ between countries. For large amounts or complex cases, talk to a consumer organisation or a lawyer.